Saturday, May 27, 2006

Mary's Experience at RYLA


Going to RYLA was sort of a last minute decision for me. I only began to consider going when many of the people who were supposed to go ended up backing out and Jeany, our Interact president, became visibly distressed. I had also planned a few other things that weekend that I didn't want to miss; my old middle school's annual play and two horse shows on Saturday and Sunday. But after a good deal of thought and discussion with my respective adults (and a few huffs from Deedee about it being "just a play") I decided not to pass up this once in a lifetime opportunity.

Departing from school, with trusty Helen to see us off, I had no idea what I was getting myself into. Upon hearing that we would be rooming with complete strangers, I was a little uneasy. But underneath that distress, a feeling of excited anticipation was stirring at the prospect of meeting new people. As it turns out, I met dozens of wonderful people from Michigan, Canada and all over the world. I met Pear, from Thailand, and girls from Germany, France, and Columbia. I got to hear an authentic Italian accent from an authentic Italian ladies man and I even met a girl who said she was from "all over". I was quite impressed and at the same time a little confused until I realized, upon hearing her say it again, that she was in fact from "Moldova".

RYLA leadership was a given quality as opposed to other camps and conferences I've been to where it was merely encouraged. They did not tell you to lead, but rather pointed you in the direction in which to lead. I realized that my voice counted and what I had to say was important to other people in my group. I found that once I stepped outside my comfort zone, every task involved became much easier. The speaker there talked about how you can either play victim in your situation or take it as a opportunity to make a change. That message resonated very strongly with me.

The values and skills that RYLA reinforced in me will hopefully prepare me for next year, being a senior at band camp, being an equestrian team captain, and being an overall "ultimate upperclassmen". What I took away from RYLA was more than anything I could have gotten from a horse show or "any old play". I am so very glad I went.

Mary Armbruster

21 comments:

Anonymous said...

TOO COOL!! You sound SO heartfelt and genuine, and oh M.A you're such a wonderful writer. Reading every line of the passage was so exciting--I tried to suck it all in... So wonderful. I'm absolutely thrilled that you had fun, and the fact that I was mentioned in your entry is AWESOME (I'm egocentric like that). And that picture of the ultimate Italian ladies man was fun to see--he does look like one, definitely. And the PIC of you is so pretty! I love that whole ENSEMBLE thing going on! WOW I sound really ditzy, but it's so much fun to be someone random like that. Anyways...yeah, I checked this out right after you sent me the email, because I was bursting with excitement to read your writing, which was, like I said, so fluid and descriptive and vivid and captivating and SO GENUINE--Marster, you're too cool. Right, I'm done gushing my brains out now, CHA-CHA!!

Anonymous said...

I agree.. Mary, you are a wonderful writer. so smoothly put. I always wonder how you do that. =.= (jealous) Anyhow, I agree with you that it was a leadership conference where "They did not tell you to lead, but rather pointed you in the direction in which to lead." And I also "realized that my voice counted and what I had to say was important to other people in my group [and]... found [out] that once I stepped outside my comfort zone, every task involved became much easier." ((see? I quoted you to sound smart and I sound smart!!))

Anonymous said...

Helen~ you posted your comment 11:11!!! that's so cool~ kiss the wall (you probably won't but...) then wish!!

Anonymous said...

sorry,... "make a wish" not just wish.

Anonymous said...

Awww... you guys warm my heart!
I tried to write it out like 3 times but it kept getting deleted, so that was my 3rd time trying to remember what I had said in the other two. I'm glad it turned out well!

Jessica said...

I'm soo happy that you went Mary! :) Thanks for letting D2 and me talk to your mom today. :)

Anonymous said...

Man! now everybody is calling me d2. Not that I am annoyed...;;;

Anonymous said...

Ha ha... Double D!
Yeah, geeze, look what you've started!

Anonymous said...

I had no idea that you guys just keep commenting! I'll do that too!! Actually, we've just returned from the picnic, and now I'm supposed to be studying, so goodbye!

Anonymous said...

Yes Helen, do join us!
It is always fun to get comments... and blogs... or whatever they are called.

Anonymous said...

oh, Mary, me being called D2 is my fault? And what's up with that lame "mystery mary"? (laughs) make it better like "MOM MARY"...

Anonymous said...

well D2, DD, Double D, Deedle-dee-dum, Deedee... whose accusing me if lame little nicknames? Uh.. like yah. I should have just put Mystery, maybe then you wouldn't make fun of me... cause my true identity would be a "mystery"... HAH!

Anonymous said...

puhahahaha...! I laugh @ you.
umm. I feel like this board is supposed to be supportive and all nice so, I am so sorry for calling you... what's the word?...ah, yes. Lame. I hope you would accept my apology.

Anonymous said...

*Sniff*... apology accepted
although I detected a hint of sarcasmsm and menace in it.
I think you have to say something nice now... to make up for it.

Anonymous said...

I am so sorry mary. (ok that sounded sarcastic again)
I am so sorry mare. (ok that sounds a little better)
anyway. thank you so much for your writing. I'll make it up to you by writing about YOU! but it won't be as good as yours.

Anonymous said...

Ummm... that's OK!
And I guess I forgive you.
We must be very entertaining to follow. It's kinds like a little online soap opera.

Anonymous said...

sorry, I mean kinda, not "kinds"
Ahhh!
so many pointless comments

Anonymous said...

yeah... so stop here?!
what do you say?

Jessica said...

this is hilarious. :)

Anonymous said...

Well, you guys leave a random chain of messages--the whole "insulting-I'm sorry" thing went on for like 8 different posts! And have you guys been doing it randomly at random times, or in quick succession with one another, like on the same day around the same time? STRANGE! Anyways, um, I'll get going now.

Anonymous said...

Helen, we did that over the course of like a week maybe. Definitely not in the same day. But then we agreed to stop.
sadness...